Dear Mummie,

I’ve had such a lot of lovely messages from people today all reminiscing about you and sharing their memories of how you were a part of their lives and it’s been absolutely glorious to add their memories to my own, to work on creating a wider picture of you as a person, a friend and a role model. Even though you were around for a relatively short time in the grand scheme of things you touched so many people who still think of you fondly.

I know there are people out there who feel that it happened so long ago and that I should move on however you were, are, my Mother and damnit if I want to spend one day out of the whole year doing nothing but remembering you and being sad about you leaving us then I will. Twelve years is a long time I know but as far as I am concerned you could have been gone for fifty years and I would still miss you as if it was the very first day without you.

G and I are continuing to do you proud, continuing to miss you and loving you more with each passing day.

With all my love for now, ever and always,

Ali Weasel xxx


2 thoughts on “Dear Mummie,

  1. Totally understand where you are coming from here. My Mummy has been gone 5 years now, I deal with it better now than then, but doesnt mean it hurts any less.((((((HUG))))))xoxoxoxoxox

  2. Oh honey,This makes me very sad. I still have my Mum (and my Dad) and I can't imagine how it will feel when they are no longer around. To have lost your Mum when you were so young must have been awful. There is no time limit to when you should 'get over' losing someone so precious. Infact, I don't think you ever will. She was your Mother for christs sake!It is normal to spend the anniversary of someones death in quiet reflection, or indeed any way you feel appropriate. Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. Huge hugs, and well done for being brave enough to write about it. Your Mum would be very proud.

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